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[h2]White, and Black Concubines[/h2]
Poole explained that dark-skinned concubines were often housed in the anterior rooms of the interior wing, where they were delegated menial services. Past these rooms were the “white” concubines, whose task was to greet visitors with silver bottles containing perfumed water, silver censers, coffee, pipes, sherbet, and other desserts. They varied in ranks between the extraordinary beautiful white concubines, according to the author, while some of them oversaw the harem’s arrangements. Pleasure reigned among these beautiful prisoners, Poole recounted, although they were not allowed to mingle with the opposite sex, with the exception of their master and his closest relatives. In the rare case that a stranger tried to pass the first entrance, the consequences of his recklessness would likely be his death. The husband and master was generally known to treat his wives and concubines in the palaces with compassion and kindness. In many cases, concubines were believed to be in a better position than the wives, who were in constant fear of being divorced, while selling a concubine who had been with the family for long was considered shameful, unless it was caused by financial distress. If a concubine bore a child from her master, and he chose to acknowledged it, then selling the concubine was considered a breach of norms.
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[h2]The Marriage of Concubines[/h2]
Many of the concubines that were cruelly snatched from their parents at early age, yet found kind parents in their new buyers. Their food and clothes were usually of a good quality, and they enjoyed a great degree of affection and pampering. If a concubine behaved well, her master was likely to marry her off to a person of status, and she would enjoy a great wedding ceremony. A notable nobleman often married several of his concubines to grooms of his choice. While such decisions could hurt the concubines’ feeling, as they prefered remaining in the houses they had grown up in, such a marriage was nonetheless considered a source of pride. The concubine would be dressed in opulent attire during her wedding day, in cashmere shawls, and fabrics embroidered with gold and silver threads would cover the harem floors, for her to walk on. Singers, and dancers are also hired for the occasion, along with girls holding censers and spraying perfumes surround the bride.
[h2]Moral Permissiveness[/h2]
Poole countered the widely held belief over the atmosphere of permissiveness and promiscuity that was said to be prevalent in harems. While it is true that the first lady had significant power that she could abuse, nonetheless her concubines were under strict surveillance. The system that the young girls in oriental harems were kept under is comparable to the rules of nunneries. Any deviation from the absolute standards of decency would result in fatal punishments.
[h2]Harem Activities[/h2]
Very few women knew how to read or write, and so the main activities in the harem was weaving using a rectangular frame on four legs, as well as supervising the kitchen, the concubines, and the servants in general. Higher-ranking women usually prepared their own favorite meals, as well as different kinds of drinks. Weaving was considered to be divinely beautify, bearing a similarity to the ornate decorations in Arab architecture. Its beauty lies in the colors, and the gemstones used in it, specifically diamonds, pearls, emeralds and rubies. The women of the harem spent long hours gossiping and exchanging anecdotes over their hookahs.
[h2]Sons’ Carnal Desires[/h2]
It was not unusual for a well-behaved teenage boy with a bright future, around the age of fourteen or fifteen, to be accosted by talk of marriage from the women of his father’s harem, before his mind was tainted by lust. His mother would push him into getting married, and eventually the boy would consent, mesmerized by the prospect of manhood, which would allow him to obtain his own harem, and to get married. Suddenly, after marriage, his nature would shift, and he would become selfish and lustful. Every effort would be made to guarantee his full attention towards his harem, through offers of luxury and temptations In some cases, after few years the victim could regain his senses and become a good husband, but in most cases, he remained a slave to untameable desires all his life.
[h2]The Grudges of Sons[/h2]
One prevalent cause for tragedy stood out inside the harem, caused by the lack of harmony and cohesion between children in a harem that housed several mothers. Although the wives had their own private quarters, children from different mothers were not separated. They met in public salons, in gardens, courtyards, and squares, and their quarrels grew with time, often devolving into serious disputes between the young sons. Envy and jealousy expounded, and if they or their mothers were subject to preferential treatment, it could turn into pure hatred, awaiting any opportunity to unleash revenge.Raseef22 is a not for profit entity. Our focus is on quality journalism. Every contribution to the NasRaseef membership goes directly towards journalism production. We stand independent, not accepting corporate sponsorships, sponsored content or political funding.
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